Before figuring out boundary-setting tactics… you’ve got to answer this first:
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I love love love this video message! Yes, we need to know our core values, not what we think they should be, or what someone else says they should be. If you are surrounding yourself with drama, then having drama in your life very likely is a core value… surrounding yourself with beauty, authentic connections, people with higher moral standards, etc, probably indicates that these attributes are your core values. Love this message and Thank you for sharing it!
Thank you, deJoly!!! And You’re so welcome!! 🙏
I order for us to become the best version of ourselves. We must identify our core values to embody our futures. I wouldn’t change a thing.
P.s. The moose is hilarious.
Thank you Orion!! I’m so glad you’re here 😊
On a coffee break from work, I gave this a listen and really appreciated the message of identifying core values, Debbie… You once introduced me to a book I found quite valuable in this regard (the first chapter of it covers core values): “Love in the Present Tense” (available at Amazon). Anyway, thanks for the good stuff, once again! (And what’s with that moose head you keep bringing into your videos? It’s gotta’ mean something to ya’, yes? Inquiring minds yada-yada-yada!) 🙂
I still love that book and you may have inspired me to do a video or two on it! As for the moose, I could tell ya but then I’d have to – ya know! Lol!
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