A few days ago, a woman whom I had never met reaches out to me at Instagram. Turns out she’s from Vienna and she’s a close friend of my dear friend Natascha. Her name is Heidi. She tagged me in a comment and “casually” mentioned that my book SANCTUARY changed her life. I was physically … More I just received this gorgeous letter
Narcissism, Quarantine, Mind Control and Passover – Escaping Slavery … More Narcissism, Quarantine, Mind Control and Passover – Escaping Slavery
Spent the day in Gadsden, Alabama with my friend Rita at Noccalula Falls. Rudolph the Reindeer says hi. But apparently he doesn’t have a red nose 😊😊😊. Enjoy! HappyD! https://joybasedliving.com/store/ For more info about CPTSR/ CPTSD/ codependency/ co-narcissism, just enter any of those terms in the search bar (in the website footer) at https://joybasedliving.com/ Debbie … More SANCTUARY Trailer 1
For the rebel and revolutionary in you. Don’t be Another Brick in the Wall. I remember hearing that song for the first time when I was 10 years old. I was sitting on a public bus, in Israel for the summer. That song made me feel like someone actually saw me and heard me, and … More Alan Watts and Pink Floyd
Thank you, George. You give me hope! This is exactly how I feel. Truth and laughter. Ridiculousness and empowerment. A look in the mirror with compassion. So grateful! Much love, Happy D! For more info about CPTSR/ CPTSD/ codependency/ co-narcissism, just enter any of those terms in the search bar (in the website footer) at … More George Carlin on PTSD – 2 min funny man rant
I’m going to post videos in the upcoming days which will include this graphic. Since my day today is jam packed with joy, I’m going to ignore the perfectionism that’s knocking at my door and simply post the image without a video. (OMG and the world didn’t stop turning and the bird didn’t stop chirping!) … More CPTSR
I never know how a joke is going to land, especially when it’s from the depths of healing things like toxic shame. So when I get a response like this one (below) from someone I adore (who rarely if ever drops f-bombs)… well, I just get so excited! Cheers! HappyD!
Blame is so uncool. So wrong. So bad. So unprofessional un-spiritual unhealthy undeserved. BUT – take care – unhealed blame can ferment into toxic shame. This post is an invitation to process the blame that lives in you (that you may even hide from yourself) so you can set yourself free from self-abandonment and emotional … More How to heal inner blame. #trauma #CPTSD #codependency #teatime #PeteWalker
At the heart of codependency is a belief that YOU are somehow responsible for someone else’s happiness EVEN WHEN they are old enough to take responsibility for their own – but they don’t. They prefer to put it on you. If you have taken it on – (maybe you were too young to say no, … More Say Goodbye to Beasts of Burden – Yippee-Ki-yay! (codependency, CPTSD, CPTSR)
I know – 2 blog posts in 1 day? Yup! I’m comin’ out of a pollen-induced stupor (over the last couple of weeks… OY!) and it’s SOOOOOOO juicy good to feel ALIVE!!! If you’re out there – contributing – being authentic – making courageous attempts to be a force of good in the world – … More Trolls – 56 second message
