Category: Setting Boundaries – Righteous Anger

Emotional neglect and abandonment #healing #PeteWalker #CPTSR #CPTSD #codependency

June 9, 2019

A read-aloud… I wanted to write “Enjoy!” But the topic is kind of heavy… so instead I’ll say, simply, “From my heart to yours.” For more info about CPTSR/ CPTSD/ codependency/ co-narcissism, just enter any of those terms in the search bar (in the website footer) at https://joybasedliving.com/ Debbie Happy Cohen is a master coach … More Emotional neglect and abandonment #healing #PeteWalker #CPTSR #CPTSD #codependency

Audio of Hey, your neediness is showing! (Worst thing imaginable to say to someone with codependency issues)

June 8, 2019

I have received so many awesome responses for this blog post (May 14, about a month ago). Including a couple of people who told me that it changed their lives. HOW COOL IS THAT??!!  In the last few days I kept getting an inspiration to read it aloud  for those of you who want to … More Audio of Hey, your neediness is showing! (Worst thing imaginable to say to someone with codependency issues)

Heal CPTSR with Mindfulness – special considerations #David Hawkins #CPTSD #codependency #teatime

June 7, 2019

Words matter. Definitions help. Especially when navigating new terrain. I hope this video sheds some light on your journey. It’s only 8 minutes. But you might want to settle in with a cuppa tea. Here are a few snapshots from the video that I thought you might find helpful: Much love, Happy D! For more … More Heal CPTSR with Mindfulness – special considerations #David Hawkins #CPTSD #codependency #teatime

CPTSR Complex Post Traumatic Stress RESPONSE

CPTSR

June 5, 2019

I’m going to post videos in the upcoming days which will include this graphic. Since my day today is jam packed with joy, I’m going to ignore the perfectionism that’s knocking at my door and simply post the image without a video. (OMG and the world didn’t stop turning and the bird didn’t stop chirping!) … More CPTSR

When people you love suffer – What to do #recap #codependency #cptsd #cptsr #teatime #playlist

May 31, 2019

I don’t know about you, but if you’re like me and even ONE person you love is suffering, it takes away from your sense of joy. This is NOT codependency. This is HUMAN. One of the reasons I’m so committed to breaking down and sharing these heavy deep topics of codependency/ CPTSD/ CPTSR is because … More When people you love suffer – What to do #recap #codependency #cptsd #cptsr #teatime #playlist

How to heal inner blame. #trauma #CPTSD #codependency #teatime #PeteWalker

May 30, 2019

Blame is so uncool. So wrong. So bad. So unprofessional un-spiritual unhealthy undeserved. BUT – take care – unhealed blame can ferment into toxic shame. This post is an invitation to process the blame that lives in you (that you may even hide from yourself) so you can set yourself free from self-abandonment and emotional … More How to heal inner blame. #trauma #CPTSD #codependency #teatime #PeteWalker

Rehab for codependency Part 1, toxic shame and guilt O JOY! #cptsd #cptsr #teatime Lidija Rangelovska, Sam Vaknin

May 29, 2019

The power of your RESOLVE is everything when it comes to healing codependency and recovering the treasure that’s on the other side of it – a life that expresses your truest and most awesome sense of self. It’s lie-busting at its finest. Within your own psyche. With compassion. I highly recommend The 2 Main Lies … More Rehab for codependency Part 1, toxic shame and guilt O JOY! #cptsd #cptsr #teatime Lidija Rangelovska, Sam Vaknin

2 main lies that keep codependents stuck – and what to do about it (teatime, cptsd, cptsr) – Disney villains, treasure cove

May 27, 2019

When light is brought to darkness, it feels so gosh darn good. This video is quite loaded so I won’t say more. Much love, Happy D! Many people who are committed to having joy in their lives are people who have known its exact opposite. Therefore, at JBL we explore many aspects of joy, including … More 2 main lies that keep codependents stuck – and what to do about it (teatime, cptsd, cptsr) – Disney villains, treasure cove

TEA TIME coming soon!

May 22, 2019

(click to enlarge) Every single day, it seems, I receive a very personal message from someone who is working through and breaking through some really deep stuff. While this thrills me to no end, I know there are so many others who are facing the same experiences, and this is inspiring me to launch a … More TEA TIME coming soon!

3 questions to ask yourself to determine the severity of your post traumatic stress

May 21, 2019

You are so worthy of your own healing… you are so worthy of waking up to your own peace and joy. Trauma is one tough topic but I believe it can be a powerful gateway to deep and lasting healing. You are so very worth it. Good on ya! Much love, HappyD! ps. Thank you, … More 3 questions to ask yourself to determine the severity of your post traumatic stress