Thank you for asking. Much love, Happy D! Here’s the video about getting traction after “general” stuckness: https://joybasedliving.com/2019/06/21/3-levels-of-stuck-get-traction-for-taking-inspired-action-cptsr-cptsd-codependency/ For more info about CPTSR/ CPTSD/ codependency/ co-narcissism, just enter any of those terms in the search bar (in the website footer) at https://joybasedliving.com/ Debbie Happy Cohen is a master coach with a graduate degree in counseling. … More Shame vs toxic shame (healing cptsr, CPTSD, codependency)
Before figuring out boundary-setting tactics… you’ve got to answer this first: For more info about CPTSR/ CPTSD/ codependency/ co-narcissism, just enter any of those terms in the search bar (in the website footer) at https://joybasedliving.com/ Debbie Happy Cohen is a master coach with a graduate degree in counseling. She’s the founder of Joy-Based Living, an … More What are your core values? (Heal CPTSR, CPTSD, codependency)
This is a really great message for anyone who’s wanting to be more conscious, awake, present. It’s also very helpful if you’re dealing with the C’s: cptsr, cptsd, codependency. The master-combo key for integrating new information is: repetition and resolve. Much love, Happy D! Here’s an image of the mnemonic for easy quick review. Click … More 5 stages to freedom finger mnemonic ala Kyle Cease #CPTSR #CPTSD #codependency
“How was I to know that healthy love includes generous amounts of positive feedback?” In previous posts (Rehab for codependency (Part 1 and 2), and 2 main lies codependents tell themselves), I mention two types of boundaries: 1. stop the negative. 2. build the positive. Many codependents apply boundary #1 (for years, even a lifetime) … More I See God in You – Movie Therapy #RabNeBanaDiJodi #CPTSD #CPTSR #codependency
Thank you friends and coaching clients who so generously trust me with your most heartfelt thoughts and questions and future possibilities. You inspire me and move me. I love you. I love growing with you. Happy D! For more info about CPTSR/ CPTSD/ codependency/ co-narcissism, just enter any of those terms in the search bar … More (F-Bomb) How to find healthy relationships #CPTSR #CPTSD #Codependency
I never know how a joke is going to land, especially when it’s from the depths of healing things like toxic shame. So when I get a response like this one (below) from someone I adore (who rarely if ever drops f-bombs)… well, I just get so excited! Cheers! HappyD!
The more I learn about tears (especially those of compassion for others and/ or self-compassion), the more magical they feel to me. But when I stop and think about it, it’s actually quite logical. We are feeling-beings. And when feelings get stuck, we humans tend to either explode or atrophy – simply because the feelings … More Stop Damming It. Tears can magically transmute trauma. 11 reasons we hold them back. (Codependency, CPTSD, CPTSR)