I don’t know about you, but if you’re like me and even ONE person you love is suffering, it takes away from your sense of joy. This is NOT codependency. This is HUMAN. One of the reasons I’m so committed to breaking down and sharing these heavy deep topics of codependency/ CPTSD/ CPTSR is because … More When people you love suffer – What to do #recap #codependency #cptsd #cptsr #teatime #playlist
Being seen. Deep friendship. Everyday validations, for one’s feelings, needs and desires; naturally reciprocated, given and received. I wish you oxygen, and friendship, and love. Happy D!
Update: If you like this article, you will love this one https://joybasedliving.com/2019/05/26/when-championing-yourself-triggers-trauma-triumph-teatime-codependency-cptsd-cptsr-every-coach-therapist-healer-should-know-this/ The sorrow which has no vent in tears may make other organs weep. Henry Maudsley Let’s take a quick look what it means to be human (vs. a machine.) Humans are fully human when they experience and express: empathy, reason and CHOICE. To … More The main danger of invisible abuse (cptsd or cptsr)
When rage has nowhere to go Because a bully has you hiding in fear Shame grows. When hidden rage is strong Shame deepens. Your light hides with it. Deeper. And then . . . Someone comes along and meets you At the depths Validates the hidden shameful experience And says, “Hello. You’re safe now. I … More Validation, Depths of Healing, Freedom Within, 2019
That depends. On whether they are honored or shamed. Whether they are treated with loyalty or betrayal. Whether they are welcomed with your presence or rejected through your absence. Tune in. Today. Right now. This moment. You Know Where They Go. Shhh… listen within… I’ll say more in a future blog post. For now, take … More Where do all the feelings go? (Part I)