If you are surrounded by bullies – SASSY Sunday 9 of 52 – a day early

Get the fuck out. When I hear stories about how people (adults) I care about continuing to let themselves be bullied, it exhausts me. I combat these stories internally with mindfulness prayers for seeing all sentient beings be happy and well. I combat these stories by sharing blogs like this one. And writing songs like … More If you are surrounded by bullies – SASSY Sunday 9 of 52 – a day early

Do you take too many photos? Do you read too many books? What’s your quirk?

AWWWEEEESOOOOOMMMMMEEEEEE! ME TOO!! I’m so flippin over the people who make fun of people for their quirks. All this does is SMOTHER people who feel insecure (artists, creatives??) . . . and they get quieter. So many amazing people are very actively HIDING their flippin’ amazing talents TODAY RIGHT NOW because of fear of judgment, … More Do you take too many photos? Do you read too many books? What’s your quirk?

So you’ve refused to be another brick in the wall – now who will you be?

After refusing to be a cog, a brick or a drone —- who will you become? Will you become a bully? A peace freak? A doormat to someone else’s whims? An addict? A zombie? I hope none of the above. I think in order to avoid these traps, and to live with dare I say … More So you’ve refused to be another brick in the wall – now who will you be?

A self-reflection question – a gift for you from Hiro

Normally, these self reflection cards are reserved for Joy-Based Living supporters at Patreon but Hiro Nakamura asked me to share this one with you. It corresponds with yesterday’s post: 3 Power Mantras for Silencing Dirty Ninjas – Doubts and Fears – SASSY Sunday Week 7 of 52 Thanks Hiro! Much love, Debbie Happy Cohen aka: … More A self-reflection question – a gift for you from Hiro

18 ways to master visibility – thrive after trauma and be who you are

Dear Divine Human, Your love life, your business, your friendships and your satisfaction in the world depends on your willingness to be visible. I hope when you read this essay, you will take it to heart. I wrote it personally for you. I want to SEE YOU win and thrive and shine! Feeling invisible seems … More 18 ways to master visibility – thrive after trauma and be who you are

3 Power Mantras for Silencing Dirty Ninjas – Doubts and Fears – SASSY Sunday Week 7 of 52

  Hey Sassy Friend! It’s Reverend SASSY SHORTS here! Last Sunday, after covering the topic of HELL YES!, I promised I would share with you three very SASSY mantras you can instantly use to help you stay in your power in the face of dirty ninjas like doubts and fears. They are: I believe in … More 3 Power Mantras for Silencing Dirty Ninjas – Doubts and Fears – SASSY Sunday Week 7 of 52

5 steps to supercharge your focus! SASSY Sunday Week 6 of 52

Hello friend! It’s Reverend SASSY SHORTS here for another SASSY SUNDAY! A few weeks back, I shared 4 stages for thriving after trauma. They are: Stuck, Shocked, Hell No, Hell Yes! I noticed that a lot of people get stuck in the boundary-setting stage of HELL NO. And we just can’t have that now, can … More 5 steps to supercharge your focus! SASSY Sunday Week 6 of 52

Want more energy? 3 ways to turn up your heart light now. SASSY Sunday Week 5.

Most women I know feel exhausted. Men, this article can apply to you, too. But I’m mostly in deep conversations with women, so you’ll have to let me know your experience. Most of the women I know work hard. They’re kind, good-natured and generous. They’ll do what it takes to be there for the people … More Want more energy? 3 ways to turn up your heart light now. SASSY Sunday Week 5.