The only way we’re ever going to get better leaders is by ending self-abandonment first. We’ve got to come back to ourselves, heal our trauma on the inside so we can manifest awesomeness on the outside. After I recorded this rant, I debated about posting it. Then I read about another public shooting yesterday. WTF. Here’s … More How self-abandonment perpetuates unhealthy leadership #quickrant #teatime
When light is brought to darkness, it feels so gosh darn good. This video is quite loaded so I won’t say more. Much love, Happy D! Many people who are committed to having joy in their lives are people who have known its exact opposite. Therefore, at JBL we explore many aspects of joy, including … More 2 main lies that keep codependents stuck – and what to do about it (teatime, cptsd, cptsr) – Disney villains, treasure cove
At the heart of codependency is a belief that YOU are somehow responsible for someone else’s happiness EVEN WHEN they are old enough to take responsibility for their own – but they don’t. They prefer to put it on you. If you have taken it on – (maybe you were too young to say no, … More Say Goodbye to Beasts of Burden – Yippee-Ki-yay! (codependency, CPTSD, CPTSR)
Finding healthy power and balance after emotional trauma* can be tricky because there is a tendency to go back to what’s familiar which isn’t necessarily what’s healthy! The Goldilocks fairy tale offers a great metaphor that can help you find your way. “This porridge is too cold, this one is too hot… and this one … More Goldilocks and the 3 Levels of Power
And learn what you can do about it, O YEAH! I used to teach a 5-week course on manifestation called Creation Mastermind. “It works!” were the most repeated words from the majority of my students. I still get calls about teaching it again. YES. It DOES work. I may go back to teaching this course … More Are you sending out mixed vibrations? Learn how codependency kills manifestations.
Someone just forwarded me this youtube about narcissism by Russell Brand. As much as I appreciate his idealism and admire his abilities to take big, abstract ideas and turn them into 2 minute soundbites – I think his message is a dangerous one. * My response to Russell’s youtube is for those of you who are … More Is love always the answer? (dealing with narcissism, response to Russell Brand)